We all want to know that we are with somebody who cares about us, and that they aren’t just going through the motions. So, how can you tell if a woman really loves you, and that she isn’t just in it for the money or because she feels like it’s time to settle? Here are some signs that she really cares about you. Just don’t make the mistake of assuming that if she doesn’t fit everything on this list, she doesn’t love you! Love doesn’t work that way.
- She Says She Loves You – It’s so obvious, but so many people will overlook this one. It is a big step for most women to say this, and if they are saying it there is a good chance that they mean it, especially if they say it at random times when they wouldn’t be expected to say it.
- She Does Things for You – She doesn’t need to put on the apron and stay home for the kids, but if you see her doing little things for you without you needing to ask for them, be sure to act especially thankful. She deserves it, because she’s probably very serious about loving you.
- She Touches You – This isn’t just about sex. If she touches you casually, and she isn’t the type of woman who does that with everybody, you’re with somebody who really cares about you. A pat, hug, kiss, or cuddle here and there means she still has those feelings for you.
- She is Intimate When She Doesn’t Want Something Else – Some women use sex to try to get their man to do something. If a woman has sex with you and isn’t asking for anything in return, it at least means she enjoys it. Most women don’t enjoy sex with a man they aren’t in love with, so this is a good sign you are on the right track. Just don’t make the mistake of thinking that if you pressure a woman into sex, it means you are pressuring her into loving you. This can seriously backfire.
- She is Appreciative – A woman who loves you will express sincere gratitude whenever you buy her a present or go out of your way for her. A woman who dismisses your efforts as though they were expected and mundane is not acting like she is in love with you. That said, if your efforts have fallen into a predictable routine, don’t be surprised if she isn’t acting especially flattered.
- She Builds You Up – A woman who loves you will usually say things to make you feel more confident in yourself. She will motivate you to stand up for yourself and give you compliments when they aren’t expected. Then again, if you are playing the pity card on a regular basis, you might burn her out.
